This evening I was seated at the garden in my faculty (arts) in Ahmadu Bello University Zaria. Four guys were seated opposite me. They were discussing about what being social means and one of them said, "Being social is being an extrovert." I don't know why but I disagree with that statement. Is the guy trying to make the social world restricted to extroverts ? Does it mean only extroverts are friendly? Does it mean introverts and ambiverts do not enjoy fun? I keep wondering till now because non of the other guys opposed what he said. Is being social really being an extrovert?

My friend keeps on complaining about her cousin’s friend. Her cousin’s friend she said uses her cousin and talks to people the way she wants. She said she is arrogant , rude, ungrateful and wicked but hardly talks. At first I thought my friend was just exaggerating because when she dislikes a person she can actually describe them wickedly, until yesterday (March 19, 2019) when my friend , her sister and I were having a chat in my friend’s room when my friend’s cousin’s friend came in (the one my friend so much resents) sat on the bed without even saying hi to any of us. Suddenly my friend’s cousin stood up and gave her some of the spaghetti my friend prepared, she ate and dropped the plate on the floor without saying “thank you”. It annoyed my friend so much, it was written all over her face. My friend said her cousin has always said that the girl is just reserved (though the girl uttered very little words when we were chatting but to me her body language doesn’t speak the language...