IS DEPRESSION A CHOICE

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We see people get depressed. True. We all have our problems but some of us don't get broken  by our problems, we tend to fight so hard.
Some people say it is  the choice of humans to get depressed or not, to stay happy or sad and I keep on wondering how that is possible.
Is it possible to just sit and decide to get depressed? decide to get mentally shattered ?
I just believe that some people are not as strong as others to take in tomes of pain, some are not strong fighters in the battlefield of life, they need the aid of others to survive the  fight.
For instance we all know that African parents are tough but some still can't get used to insults , the lack of emotions (not totally though) from these parents, they tend to get frustrated , run from home or even commit suicide which is a cliche that isn't cliche.

Some are not so strong to move on when they lose loved ones not because they don't want to move on but because they can't. Some even get inferior by the words and actions of people around them. Who chooses to feel inferior?
Some are so tough to ignore hurt but not all.

Is depression a choice or a matter of strength?

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