IT IS OKAY FOR WOMEN TO CHEAT ON MEN

There has been a rebellion going on all over the world, all over Africa, all over Nigeria . Some part of the world with few rebels, some part with many rebels. Women have been fighting against men who are violent, who are tyrants to the female specie, who think that because women are seen as weak they cant have any say in politics and the society as a whole. I am one of these rebels. Some of these rebels are feminists while some are womanists. Feminists tend to go beyond fighting for their rights, they have gone wild with being equal with men.

My feminist friend thinks it is OK for women to cheat on men since the world  think that it is natural for men to be cheats and polygamous. She sees nothing wrong with her cousin sister cheating on her fiance with three other guys. She believes it is OK if her cousin eventually gets married to her fiance and still decides to have fun with other guys.
"My cousin can as well be the head of her family." My friend said.

As a womanist, I am against her view. Women cheating on their fiances or husbands  is like polluting their purity. It is like a lose fight because that act wouldn't stop the men from cheating. It is like  the police doing the same thing they preach against. It is also impossible for her sister and her husband to both be heads. Men are always the heads in every  family even in the western world.

"Why not think of a better way to fight against some of these beastly men who pounds on our emotions so wickedly? " I asked her.
"They know no language but retaliation." She replied.

I love the idea of women standing up for their rights, being powerful and strong, showing the world that  they have a very essential role to play in the society but I hate the idea of women going beyond their boundary. The truth is that women can never do all what men do so can men not do all what women do. I STAND WITH WOMEN THAT FIGHT FOR THEIR RIGHTS NOT THOSE THAT WANT TO HAVE THE RIGHTS OF MEN AS WELL.

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